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5 Crystals For Dealing With Negative People & Toxic People

5 Crystals For Dealing With Negative People & Toxic People

5 Crystals For Dealing With Negative People & Toxic People

These five crystals will help protect you from negative people and their bad vibes. Sometimes we can’t avoid difficult or toxic people so these stones will be your crystal Allies…

The Problem With Negative People

In the context of this article, negative people are anyone you find has a bad effect on you. Their negative outlook or behaviour can really diminish your energy and make you doubt yourself.

Other times their constant focus on the negative just seems to stick around (bad vibes) and nobody needs to put up with that. This is not your burden to carry!

Crystals to protect from negative people
Crystals To Protect From Negative People

Who Are They?

Often these negative people are people that we know, friends, workmates or family members. As I cover in my book Psychic Protection Crystals this can particularly affect those in certain jobs. Do you work in retail or deal with the public in your work or business?

These days many of us have a social media presence. Even if you don’t, the internet is a place where you can encounter some really rude, low vibe, hateful and difficult people. Not to mention the trolls.

Blue kyanite tower with various protection crystals around it used to shield from negative people
Block negative energy and shield against toxic and negative people

Crystals For Dealing With Difficult Or Negative People

I’ve put together a few crystals that I think will be helpful when you are around these types of negative people. There are lots of protection crystals out there, too many to mention.

These are just a selection, there are many more covered in greater detail in my book. As always, just see which one fits your needs and your situation best.

PLEASE NOTE: I recommend you work with these crystals in addition to psychic protection techniques for the most effective results. More on this later...


Rainbow Obsidian is much gentler than Black Obsidian and has an uplifting effect. It works with the layers of your aura, absorbing and cleansing negative energy from others. Rainbow Obsidian shields your chakras and encourages positive thought patterns.

It’s excellent for empaths and anyone looking to detach from negativity and build stronger boundaries with others.

Rainbow Obsidian Heart
Rainbow Obsidian Heart


Selenite (Satin Spar) is one of the most cleansing crystals. So, having it on you or near you while dealing with negative people is very handy.

Selenite purifies any negative energy it comes into contact with. It’s a high vibration crystal that surrounds you in light. It is known to repel low vibe or negative people.

TIP: Keep some Selenite near your computer, work desk or by your phone.

Selenite (Satin Spar) sphere on a stand
Selenite (Satin Spar) sphere


Sometimes you have to deal with people who will try to suppress your energy or disempower you. Tiger’s Eye is one of my favourites to recommend if you are experiencing bullying or racism.

As well as giving psychic protection, it strengthens your aura. Tiger’s Eye empowers you to stay strong and confident in this situation.

Tiger's Eye Tumbled Stone
Tiger’s Eye Tumbled Stone


This one may come as no surprise to you. Black Tourmaline is well known for protecting you from bad vibes. It’s helpful when you are around negative people because it absorbs their negative energy and then neutralises it.

Black Tourmaline also strengthens your aura. If someone is trying to project their energy onto you, this black crystal can help block this.

Raw Black Tourmaline Crystal Point
Raw Black Tourmaline Crystal Point


Blue Kyanite works differently than some protection stones. It helps you strengthen your energetic boundaries with people and fortifies your aura. Blue Kyanite both cleanses and repels negative energy due to its high spiritual vibration.

It works well when dealing with negative or pushy people because it offers strong mental protection, ideal for empaths.

Blue Kyanite Blade
Blue Kyanite Blade
Aura, chakras image. Light shields to protect from negative people
Activate your shield

Combine With A Shielding Technique!

The crystals listed here will help you, especially if you program them. In addition, one thing that I always recommend if you have the time is to use a good shielding technique.

Understanding your energy and creating personalised shields are covered completely in my book Psychic Protection Crystals if you want to know more.

Psychic Protection Crystals By Ethan Lazzerini

Do you have a question or comment? I would love to hear from you in the comments below (PLEASE keep any questions you have concise and stick to this blog post topic if you want a response).

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With gratitude,


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6 thoughts on “5 Crystals For Dealing With Negative People & Toxic People

  1. Deirdre Treanor

    Blue Kyanite is by far one of my favorites. For me it’s so soothing. I keep it near me pretty much all of the time. If I’m going somewhere that I know will expose me to negative energy or will drain my energy (my mom’s) then I make sure I have it on me.

  2. Cherry

    Couldn’t agree more with Black Tourmaline.

    I also add in Citrine (untreated Smoky Citrine seems especially good if you have it), Jasper for its nurturing energy, and when things really get bad, Aquamarine. Labradorite also has a part to play.

    I would avoid Diamonds of any colour; Diamond is an energy amplifier, but an indiscriminate one, amping up any energy it encounters, good or bad. Employing Beryl family crystals other than Aquamarine can also help, but they soak up negative energy like a sponge, so they need frequent cleansing.

    Love and Light.

  3. Jane

    I’ve carried black tourmaline with me for quite a while, but was recently gifted bronzonite which works really well with the tourmaline, sending back negative thoughts or ill wishing to its source. I have a beautiful rainbow obsidian globe which is extremely soothing as is the numerous pieces of selenite I have in my home, thank you as always Ethan

  4. Violeta

    Until this year, I used to wear to work obsidian bracelet, then swap with a tourmalated quartz one, then fluorite, then carnelian, or combine them sometimes, depending on the vibe of the day ahead of me. One day I just couldn’t put them on anymore, they felt too heavy (aka they’ve had enough ).
    Then I started wearing my blue kyanite raw blade pendant, and “bingo”, we’ve become inseparable.

  5. Cherry

    Hi Violeta,

    Sounds like your bracelets have absorbed a lot of negative energy. Your Kyanite will be a great help, but please do make sure you thoroughly cleanse your bracelets of any and all accumulated nastiness before wearing them again: as a crystal whisperer, I can tell you for sure that they won’t want to be stuck with that icky energy, any more than you or I would.

    Love and Light.

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